Wednesday, June 8, 2011

How to tell when someone's lying - By Stuart Wolpert via UCLA Newsroom

Sup guys.
UCLA professor of psychology R. Edward Geiselman (pictured) and his colleagues have identified several indicators that a person is being deceptive. The more reliable red flags that indicate deceit, Geiselman said, include:
  • When questioned, deceptive people generally want to say as little as possible. Geiselman initially thought they would tell an elaborate story, but the vast majority give only the bare-bones. Studies with college students, as well as prisoners, show this. Geiselman’s investigative interviewing techniques are designed to get people to talk.
  • Although deceptive people do not say much, they tend to spontaneously give a justification for what little they are saying, without being prompted.
  • They tend to repeat questions before answering them, perhaps to give themselves time to concoct an answer.
  • They often monitor the listener’s reaction to what they are saying. “They try to read you to see if you are buying their story,” Geiselman said.
  • They often initially slow down their speech because they have to create their story and monitor your reaction, and when they have it straight “will spew it out faster,” Geiselman said. Truthful people are not bothered if they speak slowly, but deceptive people often think slowing their speech down may look suspicious. “Truthful people will not dramatically alter their speech rate within a single sentence,” he said.
  • They tend to use sentence fragments more frequently than truthful people; often, they will start an answer, back up and not complete the sentence.
  • They are more likely to press their lips when asked a sensitive question and are more likely to play with their hair or engage in other “grooming” behaviors. Gesturing toward one’s self with the hands tends to be a sign of deception; gesturing outwardly is not.
  • Truthful people, if challenged about details, will often deny that they are lying and explain even more, while deceptive people generally will not provide more specifics.
  • When asked a difficult question, truthful people will often look away because the question requires concentration, while dishonest people will look away only briefly, if at all, unless it is a question that should require intense concentration."
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Reading through this article actually made me think about the things I do when I lie and run bluffs, and what I can do to be a better liar, and a better detective of lies. Extremely interesting read.

11 comments:

  1. Interesting post. Facial expressions tells a lot and TV Shows like Lie To Me taught me micro expressions and some of it does work in real life.

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  2. I wonder how much people actually change their lying behavior after reading this.

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  3. I know I'm changing my bluffing technique, having read this.

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  4. I love this kind of psychological stuff!

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  5. seems a lot of these signs stem from the liar overthinking things a bit.

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  6. Really interesting stuff, I'll have too try this in real life :P

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  7. useful tips, although I think we recognize these things subconsciously.. most of the time. :P

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  8. this is awesome! and very useful =D

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  9. This post actually makes me think I'm a really good liar!

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  10. Really interesting read, I know some people who are good liars. :P

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